Has a Facebook friend request every pissed you off??
Or lead to you getting majorly irritated...
Bent out of shape...
YES!! STOP LYING!!
Okay soooooo....
First....
a friend request on Facebook
Of an old friend from the past I haven’t talked to in forever
How ironic
Let’s let that one simmer for awhile...
If anyone knows me I have a pender status for some people
Then the message...
“Did you have a kid”
Pause
Pause
Breathe
WTF
Really? Is it any of your business...
“All my thoughts”
Excuse me
how rude
STOP
My response
“No I have a niece now!”
“Oh nice”
really thats it..
then nothing
wtf was it worth it??
Yeah that’s what I fucking thought....
i really don’t know what he thought...
to be honest
Idk what he really meant by it
But
I took it as judgment
Or
Oh look at what Ms perfect did...
Idk
I won’t know
Because I’m not caring anymore
I already gave it too much of my time
But
Moral is I learned a lesson...
We don’t know until we ask...
If it matters we’ll ask hopefully
If not
Wonder
Or don’t care
Move on!!
But here’s my lesson from it....
Out of all the things I did, I didn’t do that.
You judge mental Judy.
I said to my self
Over and over
Atleast 10x
the picture he got his idea From was my
profile picture.
one of two pictures the public can see at first glance of my private Facebook. it’s me and my niece
the day I met her!
That picture says to me...
(me personally)
Just me and my niece the day
I met her finally
The wait was over
What a beautiful day
My heart was so full
I was thankful
I am blessed
I gained a new bestie
My life forever changed
I love you
Hattie Rae
My Niece
Mine
I could go on
But after all the positive things I came up with I let one negative comment poo poo on my emotions...
Then I decided
I wasn’t gonna give him that power
I wasn’t going to give that comment any more thought!!
Words are interpreted however your feeling when you read them...
good bad or neutral
Facial expressions are read
Read when you see them
SEE THEM
You might lose some clients right now by texting on your insta story.
How about put your face out there and say it...
We all know you can!!
Misinterpretation is huge right now specially in this time of uncertainly...
Like for instance my other half and I had an “ah ha moment” today
I thought he was disagreeing with me and putting my ideas down
When I confronted him
After a minute of letting it fester
Me getting pissed off
Simmering
So I said that really upsets me when you did that.. and I explained it
And he replies
No no no I was agreeing with you it makes me mad to when xyz
Maybe he was lying to me to avoid an argument lol idk..
But see how things can be misinterpreted because of all the chaos going on in life?
If we don’t mentally check ourselves every day and reset our minds dump the bullshit and recharge the self love tank...
We go backwards..
Daily routine
Habits
Constant interaction
Unconditional love
Best friend
Support System
You!!!
Be there for yourself and do that!
I promise it will change your mind!
And it will change your life!!
the beat is yet to come!! be calm in chaos
xoxoxo
-Rachel
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